Macam Mana Nak Tau Lelaki Itu TERUNA Atau Tidak???

Selama nie kita hanya mempertikaikan adakah seseorang perempuan itu masih dara atau tidak semasa berkahwin..tetapi kita tidak pernah pertikaikan adakah lelaki itu masih teruna atau tidak.? Mungkin topik kali ini agak panas tapi sekadar pengetahuan...

Mungkin ada wanita yang berhajat untuk mempersuamikan lelaki yang masih "dara"/ "teruna" walaupun kebanyakan wanita lebih suka memilih yg berpengalaman, ini panduan untuk anda mengenali samaada seseorang lelaki itu masih teruna atau tidak..

1. lelaki teruna suka mengintai-intai (curi pandang) perempuan cantik pada wajah berbanding lelaki tak ada teruna gemar melihat tubuh wanita

2. lelaki teruna segera mengalihkan pandangan apabila ditentang wanita cantik manakala lelaki tak teruna mengekalkan pandangan

3. lelaki teruna menunduk apabila dipandang wanita cantik dan menunjukkan reaksi gembira (mengetap bibir untuk cover senyum) tetapi lelaki tak teruna menunjukkan reaksi bersahaja

4. lelaki teruna malu membuka mulut untuk makan atau bercakap di hadapan wanita yg cantik, lelaki teruna seperti "kena interview" apabila bercakap dan badannya kaku

5. lelaki teruna berdegup kencang jantungnya apabila mendapati wanita cantik menyukainya

6. lelaki teruna membosankan apabila bercinta, gayanya agak "nerd". gemar berlagak untuk menarik pasangannya.

7. lelaki teruna juga sanggup menghabiskan banyak wang untuk pasangannya untuk menambat hati pasangannya

8. lelaki teruna terlalu sensitif, mereka akan sering menghubungi pasangannya sehingga dapat dan mereka akan rasa sedih yang amat sangat apabila diabaikan

9. lelaki teruna sering mengagung-agungkan pasangannya dan mengatakan orang lain tak cantik, mereka akan bercerita tentang pasangannya dan memuji-muji pasangan apabila berbual dengan kawan-kawan





















Wah.... handsome nyerrrr.....
Wajah yang tampan tidak menjamin sama ada dia teruna atau tidakkk

Cara kenalpasti restoran mamak atau sebaliknya

Sekiranya anda ke kedai-kedai mamak, cuba periksa lauknya: adakah
terdapat masakan berlaukkan daging lembu.

Ya, daging lembu. Inilah kunci untuk membezakan di antara kedai mamak
Muslim dengan bukan mamak yang berlagak Muslim...

Kenapa daging lembu? Sebab, tidak mungkin penganut-penganut agama
hindu tergamak hendak menyembelih, memasak dan menghidangkan "tuhan"
mereka! Di dalam agama Hindu, lembu merupakan haiwan suci yang
dianggap tuhan mereka.

Justeru, masakan yang berasaskan daging lembu tidak akan dihidangkan
oleh restoran-restoran yang Hindu bukan Muslim yang menyamar Muslim.

Mungkin mereka boleh menipu pelanggan dengan menggantungkan
poster-poster al-Quran atau menggaji pekerja-pekerja India Muslim yang
mampu menjawab salam apabila disapa, tetapi mereka tidak akan
sekali-kali menggadaikan "aqidah" mereka dengan menyembelih, memasak
dan menghidangkan tuhan mereka itu.

Saya pernah membuat tinjauan rambang di sekitar Gombak dan Kuala
Lumpur, dengan cara begini;

Saya memasuki restoran dan meninjau-ninjau di kaunter lauk-pauk.
Selalunya akan tercatat pada lauk daging – "daging lembu" atau "daging
kambing".

Sekiranya terdapat daging masakan daging lembu semestinya tuan
restoran tersebut adalah mamak Muslim.Seandainya, tidak terdapat
sebarang tulisan / tanda pada lauk berkenaan, saya akan bertanyakan
kepada pelayan restoran tersebut; "ada lauk daging tak?"

Pernah terjadi, pelayan tersebut menjawab, "kambing ada, daging lembu
tiada".Apabila mendengar jawapan tersebut, saya akan bertanya kembali,
"kenapa tiada lauk lembu?".

Selalunya, pelayan restoran Mamak Muslim palsu akan terperangkan dan
tergagap-gagap untuk menjawab.

Seterusnya, cabut sahaja daripada restoran tersebut.

Antara restoran yang saya dapati memang sebenar-benar mamak Muslim
dengan cara ini adalah Restoran Thaqwa di Sri Gombak, dan Restoran
Mamak (saya tak ingat namanya) di hadapan Bank Muamalat di Kuala
Lumpur.

Sementara restoran yang saya kira sebagai bukan restoran bukan mamak
yang menyamar Muslim adalah restoran Mamak (pun saya tidak ingat
namanya) di kawasan jalan pudu/jalan pasar, dan sebuah restoran mamak
(pun saya tidak ingat namanya) di deretan Bangunan Plaza UMNO di Batu
Caves.

Restoran-restoran ini menggunakan nama Restoran Muslim, dan restoran
tersebut terdapat ayat-ayat Quran dan poster-poster keislaman, tetapi
apabila ditanya tentang lauk daging lembu, mereka tergagap dan
terpinga-pinga.

Anda boleh cuba di tempat anda

G-spot Orgasm Technique

The G-spot continues to cause much heated discussion. What is it? Where is it? Does it even exist? And just what does a girl have to do to experience those fabled, mind-blowing G-spot orgasms? We present an illustrated guide.

Although the clitoris is acknowledged as the principal source of sexual satisfaction in women, researchers say that there is also a small bean-shaped patch of erectile tissue situated a short way up the front wall of the vagina which can produce orgasms when stimulated.


This area - called the G-spot after Ernst Grafenberg, the German gynaecologist who discovered it in the 1940s - is said to be directly behind the pubic bone and 2.5-4cm, across. It is controversial because, while some sexual experts say it does exist, some say not every woman has one - they think it may just be a physical peculiarity that some women have and others don't. Others believe its existence is a myth.

Controversy aside, 25 per cent of women do report having vaginal orgasms and many of them believe they are triggered by the G spot. Finding your G spot can lead to seriously sexy loveplay - if you find it, good; if you don't, you'll have fun!
If the woman raises her hips with a pillow, her partner can find her G-spot with his fingers.

Finding your G spot
Start your exploration on your own: nobody knows your body better than you. Lie face down on the bed with a pillow under your hips, lubricate your fingers - or a vibrator - and insert them into your vagina. If you hold one hand on the lower part: of your stomach and apply slight pressure, you'll be able to feel what's happening more. Curl your index finger about three inches up inside you and press back against the wall of the vagina in a 'come here' motion. If you locate the spot :the feeling may be slightly uncomfortable at first, because you won't be familiar with the sensation. Don't expect that you will orgasm immediately!

You can try this self-exploration lying on your back or you could try doing it in a squatting position. You may feel the urge to pee, so you could try locating the G spot over the loo!

Let your partner explore
You can discover your G spot alone but it will be much more fun with your partner. It will be incredibly stimulating for both of you if he watches you touch yourself and then has a go himself. Don’t be at all embarrassed to ask him - he’ll enjoy it. Trying to find your G-spot will enhance sex for both of you; you’ll get more pleasure and he’ll love giving you that.

Show him where you feel the best sensation and then let him touch you. Lie down, facing down or up, place a pillow beneath your hips, open your legs and let him place his fingers inside you, feeling for your most sensitive spot. Watching you writhe and knowing he’s learning more about your body and pleasure will be very arousing for you both.
Once you feel you've located the spot, try touching it with his penis while in different positions. Here are some suggestions:

Stimulating positions
• Most rear-entry positions hit the right spot because the penis is able to press against the front wall of your vagina. Let him lie on top of you and re-locate your G spot himself, with his penis.
• Another, even more erotic position is if you half-squat on the edge of the bed and let him enter you from behind.

• Lie facing each other. Hook your top leg over his hip and pull him toward you with your thigh, letting his penis slide into you - he'll be able to stimulate your G spot and caress and kiss you at the same time.
In addition to helping you have great sex, a lot of fun, and, with luck, a lifetime of earth-shattering orgasms, stimulation of the G spot is also said to produce an ejaculatory fluid during orgasm. Don't worry or get embarrassed if you release a lot of fluid; just enjoy it as part of the wonderful sexiness of orgasm. Happy searching!

TOP 10 BIGGEST BRAIN DAMAGING HABITS

1. No Breakfast
People who do not take breakfast are going to
have a lower blood sugar level. This leads to an
insufficient supply of nutrients to the brain
causing brain degeneration.

2. Overeating
It causes hardening of the brain arteries,
leading to a decrease in mental power...

3. Smoking
It causes multiple brain shrinkage and may
lead to Alzheimer disease.

4. High Sugar consumption
Too much sugar will interrupt the absorption
of proteins and nutrients causing malnutrition
and may interfere with brain development.

5. Air Pollution
The brain is the largest oxygen consumer in our
body.Inhaling polluted air decreases the supply of
oxygen to the brain, bringing about a decrease
in brain efficiency.

6. Sleep Deprivation
Sleep allows our brain to rest. Long term deprivation
from sleep will accelerate the death of brain cells.

7. Head covered while sleeping
Sleeping with the head covered, increases the
concentration of carbon dioxide and decrease
concentration of oxygen that may lead to brain
damaging effects.

8. Working your brain during illness
Working hard or studying with sickness may lead
to a decrease in effectiveness of the brain as well
as damage the brain.

9. Lacking in stimulating thoughts
Thinking is the best way to train our brain, lacking
in brain stimulation thoughts may cause brain shrinkage.

10. Talking Rarely
Intellectual conversations will promote the efficiency of
the brain.

Regular Health Mistakes

All of us make little health mistakes that cause damage to our bodies in the long run - simply because we are unaware we are doing something wrong. Here are some of the most common mistakes made by many of us.

Crossing our legs

Do you cross your legs at your knees when sitting? Although we may believe that this is the lady-like elegant way to sit, sitting this way cuts down circulation to your legs. If you don"t want varicose veins to mar the beauty of your legs and compromise your health, uncross your legs every time you realise you have one knee on top of the other. The best way to sit is to simply place both legs together on the floor, balancing your weight equally. If you feel like changing position, instead of crossing your legs, simply move both legs together to one side. As an alternative, you could also consider crossing your legs loosely at the ankles. This is a classically elegant way to sit, and is far better for your legs and your health than sitting with your legs crossed at your knees.

Not changing our toothbrush

How often do you change your toothbrush? Most of us wait until most of the bristles have either fallen off, or are in such bad shape that we"d be embarrassed to pull out our brush in public. However, since not many of us need to pull out our brush in public, we carry on with our frayed one until we lose it. Replace your toothbrush often. Damaged bristles can harm the enamel, and don"t massage your gums well. If you find brushing your teeth a pain like I do, but know you must do it, you might as well be doing it right. Imagine going through the annoyance of brushing your teeth twice a day only to find out that you"re damaging your enamel every time you clean your teeth. Also, use a brush with soft bristles unless your dentist has advised otherwise.

Eating out often

There are oils that are high in cholesterol, and oils that cause little harm and are better for your heart. However, no matter how light the oil is, it is never a good idea to eat too much of it. Avoid fried foods.Remember that in all probability your favourite Indian food restaurant throws a huge, HUGE chunk of butter in a tiny bowl of dal. Rita, who worked in the kitchen of a 5 star hotel, was shocked when she saw the cook chop a 500gm butter slab in half, and throw half into a Paneer Makhani dish. No wonder the customers left licking their fingers. And no wonder they felt so stuffed and heavy afterwards. Limit outdoor eating unless you know that you"re getting served light and healthy food.

Skipping breakfast

Never, ever skip breakfast. Remember, when you wake up in the morning it"s been around 10-12 hours since your last meal. Your body needs food now, more than at any other time. Eat a heavy breakfast. You will then be busy through the day, and the calories will get expended quickly. If you are trying to diet, eat a light dinner. Here are some more common health mistakes we make. Being informed and making a few changes can help make us feel a whole lot better.


High heels

High heels sure look great, but they're murder for your back. This however doesn't mean you should steer clear of stilettos. Wear them, but not when you know you will be walking around a lot. Wear them when going out for lunch or dinner - when the only walking you will be doing is to your car, to the table, and back. Avoid high heels when you are going somewhere on foot. If you are constantly tempted to wear your heels, take a good look at your flats. Is there something about them you dislike? Invest in a new pair of beautiful flats or shoes with a low heel. Buy something you love, that you will enjoy wearing. If possible, get a matching bag. You will then enjoy your flats as much as you do your heels.


Sleeping on a soft bed

You don't have to sleep on the floor be kind to your back, but do make sure you have a firm mattress. Although a mattress on springs is soft and lovely to sink into, it's bad for your back. If you already have an old bed with springs, you don't need to invest in a new one - simply get a thick wooden plank put over the springs, and place the mattress on the plank. Similarly, if your mattress is old and lumpy, throw it out and get a new one. Your neck and your back will thank you. The same rule applies to sofas. If you will be spending hours on a sofa, get a firm yet comfortable one. Sofas you completely sink into are not the best idea.

Pillows

No matter how comfortable sleeping with ten cushions is, have pity on your neck and resist. Sleep with one pillow, and make sure it is not too thick. If your pillow gets lumpy, discard it and go for a new one. Get a thin pillow if you sleep on your stomach, and something a little thicker if you sleep on your back, to give your neck adequate support


Not exercising

So all of us know we should exercise more, but many of us don't. This is a health mistake we consciously make! And why is that? Simply because we refuse to admit the damage we are causing to our bodies by not working out. A number of people only start working out once they've experienced a warning signal. Don't wait for a heart attack to strike before you decide to opt for a lifestyle change. Make the change now. You don't need to train for the marathon to be in top shape. Half an hour of brisk walking three to four times a week will make a world of difference to your health. You could then increase this to forty minutes, four times a week - and you're all set. If you haven't exercised for a week, you're making a mistake.

Amazing Calculations ...

ROMANCE MATHEMATICS

Smart man + smart woman = romance
Smart man + dumb woman = affair
Dumb man + smart woman = marriage
Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy

OFFICE ARITHMETIC

Smart boss + smart employee = profit
Smart boss + dumb employee = production
Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion
Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime

SHOPPING MATH

A man will pay $2 for a $1 item he needs.
A woman will pay $1 for a $2 item that she doesn't need.

GENERAL EQUATIONS & STATISTICS

A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.

A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.

A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.

A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

HAPPINESS

To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little.

To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.

LONGEVITY

Married men live longer than single men do, but married men are a lot more willing to die.

PROPENSITY TO CHANGE

A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.

A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

DISCUSSION T! ECHNIQUE

A woman has the last word in any argument.

Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.

The Top 11 Secrets of Life

The Top 11 Secrets of Life

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go...

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with and never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem brighter.

7. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything ; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

Always remember-Life is precious, don't let it slip by.

Lelaki Idaman Gadis

Kebanyakkan lelaki mempunyai bentuk tubuh yang berbeza yang mana setiap bahagian mampu membuat gadis terpesona. Dari bahu, pinggul dan bagian yang tersembunyi pun menjadi ciri-ciri lelaki idaman mereka. Cinta takkan datang dari hati sahaja malahan bentuk tubuh yang mantap dan pejal mampu memikat pesona gadis. Beberapa bahagian tubuh lelaki yang membuatkan para gadis menjadi gila

Bahu Lebar
Bahu yang lebar sangat disukai oleh gadis kerana dinilai memiliki kekuatan dan nampak lebih dewasa. Sesetengah gadis mengaku gairah ketika menyentuh dan membelai bahu yang berotot.

Dada Bidang
Bahagian dada juga penting buat lelaki kerana gadis akan terpegun bila melihatnya, samalah seperti lelaki yang melihat buah dada gadis yang pejal. Kebanyakan gadis selalu berkhayal tentang bentuk dada lelaki di balik pakaiannya. Seperti rasa kehangatan bila berada di pelukannya.

Lengan Berotot
Menampakkan lebih tenaga dan seksi.

Bibir yang Merekah
Gadis paling suka bentuk bibir yang penuh dan merekah. Bukan hanya untuk penampilan mereka, tapi bibir ini juga terbukti boleh mempertahankan kehidupan asmara .

Lidah yang Menggoda
Dalam hubungan seks, lidah juga memiliki peranan penting. Banyak gadis yang senang melakukan penetrasi dengan menggunakan lidah. Hal ini tentunya dapat membuat kehidupan seks anda semakin meriah.

Pinggul Seksi
Gadis suka sekali membandingkan bentuk pinggulnya dengan pasangan. Ketika berhubungan seks, pinggul yang kokoh akan membuat gadis semakin tergila-gila.

Perut Berotot
Rata-rata gadis sangat menyukai perut yang bidang dan berotot. Pada yang berperut buncit. cepat-cepatlah fitkan.

Penis Berotot
Para gadis tak menyebutkan ukuran spesifik tipe penis yang membuat mereka bergairah. Tapi ternyata area paha menuju selangkangan sangatlah penting. Jadi kinilah saat yang tepat bagi Anda untuk melakukan 'pembersihan' di bagian penis.

Ermmm!!!..

JANGAN KETUK NOZZLE PAM MINYAK.....

JANGAN KETUK NANTI TERBAKAR

Kalau kita ke stesen minyak, selalunya ada tanda arahan yang mengingatkan kita agar jangan menggunakan handphone, matikan enjin
kereta dan jangan merokok kerana benda-benda ini amat bahaya....

Ada satu lagi perkara yang tidak diberikan amaran / larangan langsung sedangkan ianya tidak kurang mendatangkan bahaya. Selalunya apabila kita memasukkan nozel ke dalam muncung tangki kereta, kita akan menunggu sehingga habis minyak yang kita beli. Kebiasaannya juga apabila nozel hendak dikeluarkan, kita mengetuknya pada muncung tangki supaya titisan-titisan terakhir petrol masuk ke dalam tangki dan tidak tertumpah.

Tapi awas . Ambil perhatian bahawa nozel tersebut adalah besi, muncung tangki juga diperbuat dari besi. Sekiranya terdapat karat pada nozel
dan muncung tangki pula bergerigi, kemungkinan bila kita mengetuknya api akan menyala ('spark').

Janganlah disebabkan tidak mahu rugi setitik dua petrol, kebakaran pula yang terjadi .

Dinasihatkan:

Jangan ketuk , tapi biarkan nozel tu lama sedikit untuk memastikan minyak telah berhenti mengalir.

petua Rasulullah

Tahukah anda mengamal minum secawanair teh "O" setiap pagi boleh mengawal berat badan anda. IsyaAllah jika anda mengamalkannya, berat badan anda akan berkurangan (memang terbukti keberkesanan).

Al-Quran juga ada mengajar kita menjaga kesihatan spt membuat amalan spt:

1. Mandi awal pagi sebelum subuh @ sekurang kurangnya sejam sebelum matahari naik. Air sejuk yang meresap ke dalam badan boleh mengurangkan lemak berkumpul. Kita boleh saksikan org mengamal mandi awal pagi kebanyakan badan tak gemuk...

2. Rasulullah mengamalkan minum segelas air sejuk setiap pagi. Mujarabnya InsyaAllah jauh dari penyakit. (susah nak kena sakit).

3. Waktu sembahyang subuh disunatkan kita bertafakur (iaitu sujud sekurang kurangnya seminit selepas membaca doa). Ia boleh mengelak dari sakit pening @ migrin. Ini terbukti oleh para saintis y! g membuat kajian kenapa dalam sehari perlu kita sujud. Ahli-ahli sains telah menemui beberapa milimeter ruang udara dalam saluran darah di kepala yg tidak dipenuhi darah. Dengan bersujud, maka darah akan mengalir ke ruang berkenaan.

4. Dalam kitab juga ada melarang kita makan makanan darat bercampur dengan makanan laut. Nabi pernah menegah kita makan ikan bersama susu, dikhuatiri akan cepat mendapat penyakit. Ini terbukti oleh saintis yang menjumpai di manadalam badan ayam mengandungi ion (+) manakala dalam ikan mengandungi ion (-). Jika dalam suapan ayam bercampur dengan ikan maka terjadi tindakan balas biokimia yng terhasil yg boleh merosakkan usus kita.

5. Nabi juga mengajar kita makan dengan tangan dan bila habis hendaklah menjilat jari. Begitu juga ahli saintis telah menjumpa bahawa enzime banyak terkandung di celah jari jari, iaitu 10 kali ganda terdapat dalam air liur. (enzime sejenis alat percerna makanan, tanpanya makanan tidak hadam).

Surah Al-Kausar

Surah ini paling pendek, hanya mengandungi 3 ayat & diturunkan di
Makkah dan bermaksud sungai di syurga. Kolam sungai ini diperbuat
daripada batu permata nan indah dan cantik.

Rasanya lebih manis daripada madu, warnanya pula lebih putih daripada
susu dan lebih wangi daripada kasturi.

Surah ini disifatkan sebagai surah penghibur hati Nabi Muhammad
s.a.w.kerana diturunkan ketika baginda bersedih atas kematian 2 orang
yang dikasihi iaitu anak lelakinya Ibrahim dan bapa saudaranya Abu Talib.

Pelbagai khasiat terkandung di dalam surah ini dan boleh kita amalkan:-

1) Baca surah ini ketika hujan dan berdoa, mudah-mudahan Allah
s.w.t.makbulkan doa kita.

2) Jika kita kehausan dan tiada air, bacalah surah ini dan gosok di
leher,Insya' allah hilang dahaga.

3) Jika sering sakit mata, seperti berair, gatal, bengkak, sapukan air
mawar yang sudah dibacakan surah ini sebanyak 10x pada mata.

4) Jika rumah dipercayai terkena sihir, baca surah ini 10x,
mudah-mudahan Allah s.w.t. bagi ilham pada kita dimana letaknya sihir
itu.

5) Jika membacanya 1,000x rezeki kita akan bertambah.

6) Jika rajin membacanya, hati kita akan menjadi lembut dan khusyuk
ketika menunaikan solat.

7) Jika orang teraniaya dan terpenjara membacanya sebanyak 71x, Allah
s.w.t. akan memberikan bantuan kepadanya kerana dia tidak bersalah
tetapi dizalimi.

Perkara yg baik kita amalkan slalu.Sebar2kan kepada kekawan, terima
kasih.

Petua murah rezeki dan di jauhkan kesulitan

Abu Yazid Al Busthami, pelopor sufi, pada suatu hari pernah didatangi seorang lelaki yang wajahnya kusam dan keningnya selalu berkerut. Dengan murung lelaki itu mengadu,"Tuan Guru, sepanjang hidup saya, rasanya tak pernah lepas saya beribadah kepada Allah.

Orang lain sudah lelap, saya masih bermunajat. Isteri saya belum bangun, saya sudah mengaji. Saya juga bukan pemalas yang enggan mencari rezeki.

Tetapi mengapa saya selalu malang dan kehidupan saya penuh kesulitan?" Sang Guru menjawab sederhana, "Perbaiki penampilanmu dan rubahlah roman mukamu. Kau tahu, Rasulullah adalah penduduk dunia yang miskin namun wajahnya tak pernah keruh dan selalu ceria.

Sebab menurut Rasulullah, salah satu tanda penghuni neraka ialah muka masam yang membuat orang curiga kepadanya." Lelaki itu tertunduk. Ia pun berjanji akan memperbaiki penampilannya. Wajahnya senantiasa berseri. Setiap kesedihan diterima dengan sabar, tanpa mengeluh.

Alhamdullilah sesudah itu ia tak pernah datang lagi untuk berkeluh kesah. Keserasian selalu dijaga. Sikapnya ramah,wajahnya senantiasa mengulum senyum bersahabat. Roman mukanya berseri.

Tak heran jika Imam Hasan Al Basri berpendapat, awal keberhasilan sesuatu pekerjaan adalah roman muka yang ramah dan penuh senyum. Bahkan Rasulullah menegaskan, senyum adalah sedekah paling murah tetapi paling besar pahalanya. Demikian pula seorang suami atau seorang isteri.

Alangkah celakanya rumah tangga jika suami isteri selalu berwajah tegang. Sebab tak ada persoalan yang diselesaikan dengan mudah melalui kekeruhan dan ketegangan. Dalam hati yang tenang, pikiran yang dingin dan wajah cerah, Insya Allah, apapun persoalannya nescaya dapat diatasi. Inilah yang dinamakan keluarga sakinah, yang didalamnya penuh dengan cinta dan kasih sayang.